“People say, “Oh, well, pornography—that’s for masturbation, nobody can get hurt that way.” But orgasm is a very serious reward, isn’t it? Think of Pavlov’s little dogs, right? They don’t just think about salivating; they salivate. They do it because they learned it. Period. Now think about pornography. The dehumanization is a basic part of the content of all pornography without exception. Pornography in this country in the last ten years has become increasingly violent by every measure, including Playboy, including all the stuff you take for granted; and every single orgasm is a reward for believing that material, absorbing that material, responding to that value system: having a sexual response to stuff that makes women inferior, subhuman.”
I can‘t stand the notion that women have to “the bigger person” and be morally flawless everytime it comes to men/women discussions.
Women aren’t allowed to be angry and fight back without being labeled as the “worse” of the two and getting told that this “justifies” their oppression, but men are allowed to be utterly misogynistic and evil because “they‘ve also been groomed by the system, they‘re victims!!!”.
Like, no. They see us suffering and they know that suffering is bad, and a victim fighting back can‘t be “as bad as” or “worse” than being a f*cking perpetrator.
Men do everything to drive women “crazy” and then it‘s suddenly our fault.
I don’t give a bakers fuck that porn usage causes depression and anxiety in men. you willingly jack off to the torture and degradation of women? you deserve that and more
